Dating / Racism / The Problem Guests

The Problem Guests: Racism in the Gay Community

Written by Robert in response to a former #SpillSesh interview on Dating As a Gay Black Man.

I am a 58 year old African American who came out at 18. I have 40 years of experience being out in Los Angeles, the Bay Area and in NYC. I experienced far less discrimination in the gay community in the 80’s and 90’s than I do now. I have tried to put my finger on why that is. Continue reading

Dating / Relationship Advice / SpillSesh Interviews

#SpillSesh: Dating As A Gay Black Man

In my new interview series #SpillSesh, I aim to bring you stories and issues from the LGBTQ+ community that matter.  No celebrities, no influencers, just real people discussing real issues in their lives.  I hope that as these stories are read and shared, we can start impacting some serious change in our community.  In our … Continue reading