My book The Grid: Lessons from the Men of Grindr is now available on Amazon in paperback, Kindle eBook, and on Kindle Unlimited.
Written by Robert in response to a former #SpillSesh interview on Dating As a Gay Black Man.
I am a 58 year old African American who came out at 18. I have 40 years of experience being out in Los Angeles, the Bay Area and in NYC. I experienced far less discrimination in the gay community in the 80’s and 90’s than I do now. I have tried to put my finger on why that is.
A self-reflective look into why gay people are often competitive with one another in friendships and dating, including tips on how to fix it.
How to deal with the super delayed responders of gay dating.