An analysis of height queens – or gay men who only find other men of certain heights attractive – being pervasive in the gay dating scene.
Written by @unicorns_drink_blood
Too often I see men, especially queer/gay men, distorting their sexual identity into an easy to swallow two dimensional presentation. Often relying on stereotypes of what it is to be “male” to set acceptable parameters. Letting society define your sexual self is limiting at best and dangerous or detrimental at worst. Forcing parts of ourselves to remain in the shadows is in reality telling ourselves we are ashamed of our person.
An often-taboo topic, I discuss the issue of nude shaming and how it is unique in the LGBTQ+ community.
A discussion of the “generous only” scene on dating apps like Grindr, and trends in the wake of the new FOSTA-SESTA laws against online sex trafficking.