Since the dawn of time, or at least since I’ve come out, I have had a very tumultuous relationship with “flaky gays…” Continue reading
Category Archives: Sex & Hooking Up
#TheGrid2 Snippet: Grindr’s “Stat Culture”
As I come closer to finishing part two of my book The Grid: Lessons from the Men of Grindr, I wanted to share another snippet (since it is hard for me to write about anything else at the moment!) Here is a section on Grindr’s destructive “stat culture” – I know most of you who have ever been on the app will connect with this. I hope all of you will check out my full breakdown (and suggestions for fixing) “stat culture” when the book comes out. Continue reading
Hey! That’s My Nude…
Sending nude photos and videos involving others may seem harmless, but might be illegal. I discuss some follower experiences from Grindr and clarify the laws. Continue reading
The Problem Guests: The Sexualized Culture of Gay Media
An essay written by @pilotsdiscretion
Your content has had me thinking for some time about the gay media that I consume. More importantly, it has me thinking about the content I consumed during what I think of as somewhat formative years of my adolescence. Continue reading
