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The App-Unfriendly Body

I recently received a DM from a follower with a problem that will probably ring true for almost all of us. He wrote that he was struggling with the “gay beauty standard” – you know the one, muscular, fat ass, abs everywhere – and finds himself comparing his body to the guys he sees on apps… Continue reading

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Gay Therapy: Questions for an LGBTQ Psychotherapist – Pt. 2, Drugs in Relationships, PnP/Chemsex, Emotional Abuse

It’s no surprise that I regularly receive some intense questions from my followers.  While I do my best to answer, I think we could all benefit from a professional!  I reached out to Nick Fager over at @gaytherapy for some help.  Nick is an LGBTQ psychotherapist based in NYC.  Some of you may already follow … Continue reading