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The Flaky Gays

Since the dawn of time, or at least since I’ve come out, I have had a very tumultuous relationship with “flaky gays…” Continue reading

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The Problem Guests: Why Is It So Hard to Make Other Gay Friends?

Written by Mitchell Jordan. Before our first — and final — date, the French man whom I’d been chatting to for the past 48 hours offered some comforting words to help calm my nerves. “At the very least,” he assured, “we can still be friends.” Possibly he meant well, but this flimsy promise made me … Continue reading

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5 Popular Gay Excuses, Interpreted

I was going back through my old content, and the topic of “gay excuses” seemed to be recurring in my early posts. These are the typical excuses provided by gay men that you’re trying to date or otherwise get-to-know in some capacity. They can be confusing, infuriating, and often, complete bullshit. Here, I look into 5 popular excuses provided by gay men and what they might actually mean… Continue reading