Apps / Dating / Mental Health / Sex & Hooking Up

The App-Unfriendly Body

I recently received a DM from a follower with a problem that will probably ring true for almost all of us. He wrote that he was struggling with the “gay beauty standard” – you know the one, muscular, fat ass, abs everywhere – and finds himself comparing his body to the guys he sees on apps… Continue reading

Dating / Friendship / The Problem Guests

The Problem Guests: Why Is It So Hard to Make Other Gay Friends?

Written by Mitchell Jordan. Before our first — and final — date, the French man whom I’d been chatting to for the past 48 hours offered some comforting words to help calm my nerves. “At the very least,” he assured, “we can still be friends.” Possibly he meant well, but this flimsy promise made me … Continue reading