Coming Out / Gay Tribes

Is it OK Not to Relate to Gay People?

A discussion of whether or not it’s acceptable not to relate to other gay people, if it’s ok to voice that reality, and how to do so inoffensively. Continue reading

Coming Out / Dating / Relationship Advice / The Problem Guests

The Problem Guests: Not Meeting the Parents

An anonymous blog submission

There wasn’t anything wrong with the romance that I had gotten myself into. Every customary thing: opening doors, creative date spots, flowers… you name it. I was relieved to be in the presence of somebody who not only got along with me very well, but made me feel secure. That I was his focal point, and there weren’t figures lingering in the periphery to break his gaze on me. Continue reading