My book The Grid: Lessons from the Men of Grindr is now available on Amazon in paperback, Kindle eBook, and on Kindle Unlimited. Continue reading
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TPG Turns 4!
A note from me on the 4th anniversary of The Problem Gays. Continue reading
The App-Unfriendly Body
I recently received a DM from a follower with a problem that will probably ring true for almost all of us. He wrote that he was struggling with the “gay beauty standard” – you know the one, muscular, fat ass, abs everywhere – and finds himself comparing his body to the guys he sees on apps… Continue reading
The Flaky Gays
Since the dawn of time, or at least since I’ve come out, I have had a very tumultuous relationship with “flaky gays…” Continue reading
The Problem Guests: Why Is It So Hard to Make Other Gay Friends?
Written by Mitchell Jordan. Before our first — and final — date, the French man whom I’d been chatting to for the past 48 hours offered some comforting words to help calm my nerves. “At the very least,” he assured, “we can still be friends.” Possibly he meant well, but this flimsy promise made me … Continue reading
