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#TheGrid2 Snippet: When to Meet the Guy from an App
Since I am knee-deep in finishing up part two of my book The Grid: Lessons from the Men of Grindr, I thought I’d share a snippet (since it is hard for me to write about anything else at the moment!) Here is a section on deciding when to meet someone in real life from an app. In this case, I met Michael (a guy you’ll discover in book 2) the same night we started talking on Grindr. Needless to say, it was an interesting night! Here are my thoughts on when to potentially meet that guy from an app… Continue reading
The Problem Guests: Grindr and Consent
Written by William @willmlemos
I have had a tumultuous relationship with the social media app in the 8 years that I have been an openly gay man. Continue reading
The Problem Guests: False Inclusivity
Written by Michael (@mycooljaymes) in response to a former #SpillSesh interview on Dating As a Gay Black Man.
My story doesn’t really come from one that deals with body issues, mine deals with the color of my skin. I’ve seen so many ads feature for white men, white men have always been the face of everything. Continue reading
The Problem Guests: Racism in the Gay Community
Written by Robert in response to a former #SpillSesh interview on Dating As a Gay Black Man.
I am a 58 year old African American who came out at 18. I have 40 years of experience being out in Los Angeles, the Bay Area and in NYC. I experienced far less discrimination in the gay community in the 80’s and 90’s than I do now. I have tried to put my finger on why that is. Continue reading
