The Grid: Lessons from the Men of Grindr is now on Amazon Kindle and Paperback.
A discussion of whether or not it’s acceptable not to relate to other gay people, if it’s ok to voice that reality, and how to do so inoffensively.
A discussion of how social media and self-esteem intertwine in the queer community, leaving a trail of destruction.
How to deal with the super delayed responders of gay dating.
An anonymous blog submission
There wasn’t anything wrong with the romance that I had gotten myself into. Every customary thing: opening doors, creative date spots, flowers… you name it. I was relieved to be in the presence of somebody who not only got along with me very well, but made me feel secure. That I was his focal point, and there weren’t figures lingering in the periphery to break his gaze on me.